Parting Words

First, thank you.

Thank you for sharing your precious girls with us, for choosing this experience over all the other things you could have done. It is a wonderful gift to your girls and to this entire community. Each camper adds so much… the curious alchemy of making golden summers is a result of each camper’s contributions. Thank you for making this summer so good.

Second, some housecleaning:

Tomorrow is Closing Day, and we encourage you to come early. Most campers are gone by 10:00AM and while we are happy to have the girls here, they tend to feel sad once the camp empties of other campers. We will open the gates at 7:30, I would suggest you arrive around 8:00 to 9:00. That gives us plenty of time to bring the luggage to the track where it is sorted by cabin groups. You park, go hug your daughter (in her cabin), check her out, carry the loose stuff to the car, we will load your trunk, duffle, laundry bag… everything heavy that was brought to the track. We tag each bag with your camper’s name, and number the bags you are to pick up. Be prepared to pick up more bags than you dropped off (the laundry bags are the ones most often forgotten on the track). Also make SURE that the trunk or duffle that looks like your bag is your bag (many look the same, easy to get someone elses bag).

My thoughts on the summer: it has been particularly good. It is never perfect, but this one has come as close as we have ever seen. I think God knew that we needed a good summer, I needed a good one. My father’s death put a lot more routines into my days, I felt the pressure and worked harder (got less sleep). God watched over this summer, I give him all the Glory. It has been very sweet.

Your girls are wonderful. They are grateful, they are joyful, they are obediant, they are respectful, they are diligent, and they are funny. Their efforts are remarkable, to be so young and so “wide eyed” yet accomplish so much… amazing. The future of our country is probably much brighter than you think; this next generation is going to deliver!

Camp is amazing. Take time to debrief from the summer… there are so many stories to hear, so many things to know… you might want to ask about the jokes first (always a good conversation starter), move on to favorite friends, counselors, events, food, and see where things go from there. Ask about the hard times too… it all goes into the perfect summer.

I want to know if anything was a disappointment or if there are suggestions for improvements. Most of my great ideas come from other people (campers, staff, and parents). Did it matter that we gave free emails or not? Did you feel that you were prepared for camp before you got here? I love hearing it all. We focus on details, that is where the magic really comes together each summer… so every little bit helps. New parents, especially, give a perspective that is helpful.

Today is hot (again), chance of rain (again), and filled with emotion. Everyone is happy, it feels like Christmas Eve. The counselors are working on the Banquet, even though classes are still going on. Larger departments send extra counselors to the Dining Hall to hang murals, streamers, assemble table decorations, set places, distribute favors, and do all the hundreds of details that go into the perfect banquet. The campers love this final act of love by the counselors… it culminates at the end of the night (after feasting, toasting, awards) when the counselors sing the traditional farewell to the campers. “Good Night, my God is watching orr you; Good night His presence goes before you; Good Night, and I’ll be praying for you; So Good Night, may God Bless You.”

I wish the world was like camp. It is as close to heaven as I ever see…

I will be blogging (if that is a word) on the news page all winter long. Starting with the beach next week (If I don’t, it is just because Margaret won’t let me work). Keep in touch.

And thanks again.

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10:34 AM Aug 12, 2010

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10:52 AM Aug 12, 2010

Lauren

"you have done a fabulous job!!! i would love to see a photo of all of the sisters at camp. maybe next yr? thanks again!"

11:23 AM Aug 12, 2010

Andrea

"Thanks so much for daily updates! You have no idea how much it means to read daily tidbits - makes me feel a little closer to camp! The pictures are priceless as well. I feel like a "silent participant" when I read your posts and browse the pictures. Thanks for all you and your staff do to make this a wonderful experience for our daughters!!!"

2:05 PM Aug 12, 2010

Laurie

"Lovely comments. I especially appreciate hearing your encouraging words about the potential of this generation of young people. I am happy that Martha spent some time this summer under the guidance of someone who is optimistic about the future. God is good!"

2:30 PM Aug 12, 2010

Mary

"You deserve a wonderful time at the beach. You've had all us parents glued to the news updates and we thank you. We thank you and all the "grownups" for your guidance, wisdom and love for our children. God Bless you and your family."

2:56 PM Aug 12, 2010

Heather

"My husband and I began this journey with our daughter over a year ago, when we were placed on the waitlist. I approached the whole thing with much trepidation, as she is our oldest and we are "first timers." Admittedly, I shed some tears when I left her at Greystone and in the couple of days following. Over these two weeks we have read your blog every day and looked at EVERY single picture. Your words have brought so much comfort and contentment. Although we are five hours away, we have felt so much a part of her experience. I know she has had a wonderful time, but what's more, is the influence that you and your staff have had on her sweet spirit. We thank you, from the bottom of our hearts."

3:03 PM Aug 12, 2010

Carol

"Jimboy, I want to come to camp. Can I come next summer and Melanie can stay home? Thank you so much for the news every day. I have learned so much about life at Greystone. You are a blessing to all."

7:29 PM Aug 12, 2010

Brandi

"Thank you Jimboy for sharing camp and your family with our girls. Greystone is such a blessing to these girls and, in turn, us. For them to be in such a fun and uplifting environment, free of the world and all distractions ...just to celebrate being children and worshiping God--what a joy! Thank you all for living and modeling 1 Corinthians 1:31 . We are grateful!"

8:02 PM Aug 12, 2010

Lori

"Our family needed a good summer for different reasons. Greystone has been the one constant the girls could count on this summer. However, they knew it would be different without your Dad. I would be remiss in not mentioning the passing of your father's impact on my 3 daughter's lives. I can remember the day I sat them down to tell them that he had died. I explained just how you did - that he passed after a day full of life that he loved. Instantly, my girls were deeply saddened and the tears came. I asked what JimDaddy meant to them. How very telling the impact he had on my girls and so many others. What a wonderful man. My oldest, began starting her day in his honor, with a similar saying to his (or his) "I feel terrific and it's going to be a great day!" All of our attitudes are better because of him. I am sorry it took losing your Dad for us to realize that embracing life and God's grace every day is contagious. Even in his passing he touched lives. What an amazing man. My daughter still has a name badge from a previous camp that says "Hello my name is "terrific". You have had hefty shoes to fill. After tomorrow it should feel great to know that you filled his shoes your way-knowing his shoes could never be replaced. You filled them with love, hard work, and lots of wonderful people around you. What a tough road for you this summer. There is no finish line. Rejoice in the Lord's grace with Margaret of the wonderful journey you all have blessed our children with these past two weeks. My girls will come back with a life long gift again that you all created for them. I will always be so thankful."

10:09 PM Aug 12, 2010

Kirsten

"My 9 year old son just asked why I cry every time I read one of your blog posts! I can't explain it, but we are so thankful that our daughter, Harriet, has been able to spend yet another summer so close to heaven with you and your family. Thank you for sharing Greystone with her and your thoughts with us."

12:26 AM Aug 14, 2010

Gina

"Jimboy, I too wish the world was like camp. That was beautiful. May God bless you and your family as you spend the week together for a much deserved rest! I know Jim Daddy is watching and please be at peace knowing he is proud of a job well done with love and enthusiasm!"

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